Questioning your current relationship status? Here are six background signs of a potential issue and tools that can help you uncover secrets.
They refuse to delete their dating site profile
If you met your significant other on a dating website like Match.com or eHarmony, you’re not alone — 20% of current relationships began online! But, if you’re in a committed relationship and they refuse to delete their dating profile, or, you find an account that they didn’t tell you about, it may be time to tell your partner to hit the bricks.
You notice calls and texts from random numbers on their phone.
Cell phones are never too far from most people’s hands these days — 37% of people even feel compelled to check their cell phones every 30 minutes or less. But, if your partner is receiving texts or phone calls day and night from numbers that you don’t know, a Reverse Phone Lookup may be the perfect tool to help you out. A Phone Lookup uses Public Records to tell you exactly who owns the number in question, and, whether or not it’s time to contact a divorce lawyer.
You catch them lying about their background.
You may feel like you know everything there is to know about your partner, but, you might also be wrong. If your partner’s recent behavior is making you suspicious, a Background Check is a simple way to learn about what they may be hiding. While a Background Check won’t tell you if your partner is seeing someone on the side, it can let you know about other secrets they may be keeping from you- like a hidden Criminal Record or property that they never told you about.
They have an app designed to hide information on their phone.
These days, it seems like there’s an app for everything, and cheating is no exception. Three of the major offenders currently available are CATE, TigerText, and Vaulty Stocks.
CATE (which stands for Call And Text Eraser) is an app created in 2011 by former police officer Philip Immler after seeing a friend go through a divorce because his wife found incriminating messages on his phone. It’s designed to intercept texts and phone calls and store them within the app instead of appearing directly on your phone. The app owner then uses a passcode that is typed directly into the phone to unlock whatever Phone Records they’ve decided to hide, which also gives them the option of not using an icon to access the app.
TigerText is an app that helps cheaters by storing their iPhone messages on external servers instead of on the phone itself. The user can then set a time limit, and once the timer is done the messages are deleted. TigerText’s founder, Jeffrey Evans, claims that he created the app as a way to ensure privacy and not to assist cheating partners. But, like many forms of new technology, TigerText is frequently used, unfortunately, as a tool for cheating in a relationship.
Vaulty Stocks is designed to keep naughty pictures and videos hidden on your phone. If someone attempts to use the app but has an incorrect passcode, they’ll find what looks like a perfectly normal app for checking stocks instead of proof of cheating.
They have an account on a website like AshleyMadison.com.
Okay, so this one isn’t so much a sign that your other half may be unfaithful as it is a sign that they are being unfaithful. AshleyMadison.com, which launched in 2001, is a type of online dating website that differs in one way from major dating sites – instead of their target demographic being single people seeking a relationship, they choose to encourage people who are already in a relationship to use their service to find a lover. In fact, their motto is “Life is short. Have an affair.”- far from the type of online service, a faithful partner would use!
They make sudden changes in their schedule or appearance.
If your partner is suddenly working overtime every night of the week, working out (especially when they hate exercise more than anything) and/or trading their regular clothing style for something fancier, there may be a reason to be concerned. If your partner seems to be changing their look without reason, it’s probably time to keep a closer eye on their activities.
